December 2020

\”Think\” your way to Orgasm

Studies show that women can \”think\” their way to orgasm. In other words, have \’mental\’ orgasms without touching their genitals.  The physiological responses of blood pressure, heart rate, and the dilation of the pupils as well as the insensitivity to pain during orgasm were measured in women who think their way to orgasm.  The results […]

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Orgasmic Anhedonia Needs to be in Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)

A few weeks ago, I posted on Facebook about how the term, Male Orgasmic Disorder, was changed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th edition, to \”Delayed Ejaculation\”.  I have a different perspective now that I conducted more research. I read several studies recently where this change was a disservice to men. 

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Why do some women have difficulty orgasming?

While there are many reasons, this article addresses the brain, anxiety and trauma and how they affect orgasm. Below is an excerpt from a study that jumped out at me and I will explain why. “The circuit between the amygdala and the frontal cortex has been shown to be stronger in individuals with certain types

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What is the best way to please a woman in bed?

That depends on which woman you’re trying to please. Before we even begin, let\’s change the phrase \”trying to please\” to \”experiencing your woman in arousal and orgasm.\” Women can sense when men are \”trying to please\” them sexually and that can be a turnoff and create disconnection and goal orientation. And to women, when

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Freud was Wrong: The Clitoris IS What Creates Women\’s Orgasm

Yes, orgasm may happen in the vagina and be experienced differently than stimulating the pea-size glans of the clitoris directly, however, it is time to set the record straight and correct incorrect information that for decades damaged the psyches of women. Freud was wrong. In the 1930\’s he had the nerve to say that women\’s

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